Dear Mrs. Bixby

 Jul 29th, 2007 | By Tim | Category: Reflections | Visited 1144 times, 1 so far today |

Saving Private RyanI watched Saving Private Ryan again this evening for the ump-teenth time. I don’t know why I watch it. I have mixed emotions each time I see it. I enjoy the special effects and I always spend some time pondering over the moral dilemma’s that are brought to the forefront.

I’ve always enjoyed listening to the letter that is read and emphasized in the movie that was written to a Mrs. Bixby from Abraham Lincoln. I decided to do a Google and see if there is any other information regarding the letter. So here is what I found. I’ll give you the letter first:

Executive Mansion,
Washington, Nov. 21, 1864.

Dear Madam,

I have been shown in the files of the War Department a statement of the Adjutant General of Massachusetts that you are the mother of five sons who have died gloriously on the field of battle.

I feel how weak and fruitless must be any word of mine which should attempt to beguile you from the grief of a loss so overwhelming. But I cannot refrain from tendering you the consolation that may be found in the thanks of the Republic they died to save.

I pray that our Heavenly Father may assuage the anguish of your bereavement, and leave you only the cherished memory of the loved and lost, and the solemn pride that must be yours to have laid so costly a sacrifice upon the altar of freedom.

Yours, very sincerely and respectfully,

A. Lincoln

Now here is what accompanied the letter. I also verified this on a couple of other sites. You can find it for yourself by searching for Letter to Mrs. Bixby.

In the fall of 1864, Massachusetts Governor John A. Andrew wrote to President Lincoln asking him to express condolences to Mrs. Lydia Bixby, a widow who was believed to have lost five sons during the Civil War. Lincoln’s letter to her was printed by the Boston Evening Transcript. Later it was revealed that only two of Mrs. Bixby’s five sons died in battle (Charles and Oliver). One deserted the army, one was honorably discharged, and another deserted or died a prisoner of war.

The authorship of the letter has been debated by scholars, some of whom now believe it was written instead by John Hay, one of Lincoln’s White House secretaries. The original letter was destroyed by Mrs. Bixby, who was a Confederate sympathizer and disliked President Lincoln. Copies of an early forgery have been circulating for many years, causing many people to believe they have the original letter.

And so it is with Hollywood and politics alike. Both cloak themselves in half-truths for the sake of the show.

The part of the letter that struck me and spurred my search was the part that referred to the sons as having “died gloriously on the field of battle.” I was wondering if that was really possible. I understand the sentiment and I’m certainly not belittling those who have lost their lives in war but I can’t help but be reminded that death itself is an enemy and can only be conquered “gloriously” through Jesus Christ our Lord.
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